I

thought you should know
men are more phallus-conscious
than women.

It is not about your penis
that I dream,
nor even your erection.

I dream of sensuality,
the touch,
the smell
the hunger.

Your thrusts
pleasure me
but they do not define
you
nor our pleasure.

They are part,
not even the heart,
of the wholeness
that turns me on.